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Ohayo! I am back again…ermm after quite some time I guess.

As usual..I just want to share a few articles which I read. One of the article was regarding friendship.

I found it very interesting and I would just want to share with all.

Have you ever feel like screaming at your friend/friends whom was/were very close to you? Close friend? Best friends?

Maybe yes maybe not. As far as I am concerned…this happens very often to all of us. Once you “clicked” with your friend, you find that there is a chemistry bond between the two of you. Should I use the word “inseparable”?

Things may just take a twist and …..BOOM….you are so frustrated! With who?? Your so-called-inseparable friend. She might not be in the same mood as you are. Take an example; You were excited about the company which you are about to join. You are sharing your excitement and are talking bout it with her. Guess what…she was not only excited but her attitude only demotivates you. Oww…what a bad day huh?

She might have lost herself. In fact, we sometimes too have to put ourself in their shoes. Something bad might have happened. She has no one to talk to as well. So…what’s the solution?

I strongly suggest that we should be a true friend by starting to care and not backfire. This is the time to be a FRIEND-IN-NEED. She might just spill the beans and you might be the greatest help by just listening. It is a proven fact that girls likes to be listened. Solution is always the seconder. Just be there and I can guarantee that the bond will be even stronger than before. It works as good as in the case of relationship. Hardwork always pays off.

Do not ignore but you can opt to show your vulnerability side. If anything that your friend does hurts you eventually…spill it. Confront it..not with yelling and screaming please. Once he/she knows..they will start to evaluate themselves on the things that they did or said. They themselves sometimes has to be told on their behavior. Reflection is good.

A friendship is worth-saving provided he/ she did not back stab you. Who wants a friend that is selfish? Think of others before you. I love this article!

Well…guess that is all for now. I will share more interesting stories in my next blog…

Watch out ya…